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The Way My Boyfriend Goes Down on Me Makes Me Die Inside
How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous!
Dear How to Do It,
I’m a late-40s bisexual female in a long-term partnership with a straight late-40s male. I really savor giving him oral sex. In fact, I can’t even think of a sexual encounter with him that I didn’t disburse a good hour just loving his taste, his smell, and his reaction to my attention.
My difficulty is reciprocation. He says that he loves to depart down on me, but I have to request for it about 98 percent of the moment. It always feels favor I’m begging him to do it, and his body language reads fond going down on me is the last thing on earth he’d yearn to do. He moves uncertainly, without confidence, and hesitates. There’s no pleasure in it for me—he licks for a bit, maybe 15 minutes, and then I give up. I always regret asking, because it makes me start to question my desirability.
I know how I taste and smell because I sample myself periodically during his blow position. It’s a game we play, so I understand my scent isn’t revolting, and my taste is mild, but his reaction throws my confidence off. All I c
The Journey to Satisfaction
The Journey to Satisfaction
Act 1 - Begin of the Affair
When I was 19 I started an affair with an older married male. He was in his late 30s and a matchless match for me. Buff, hairy, square features, 6 feet 2 inches statuesque . He also had the perfect cock that was banana shaped, six-inches drawn-out with nice thickness. As a meek I loved how he would physically dominate me. This was easy for him because I was a skinny, 5 feet 7 inches, and kept myself fully shaved hairless. I had been with guys my age and had been doing anal masturbation. But sex for me was always about making my boyfriend happy. It didn't matter to me if I came or not. But I always longed for someone who could satisfy me naturally.
Our affair started randomly at a conference. I was doing a business internship and he was a prosperous corporate executive. I felt a twinge when we met and he felt the same as he exchanged his number. For many months we texted and got to know each other. Then one morning he suggested we meet and I was happy to agree. It was at this go out that I realised how hot he actually was. He was a plain black T that showed his muscular physique. I struggled to control my
My First Gay Life
I wasn’t into oral until after my second male lover that I met some years later on the internet. He was an older guy who was twice my age and when he told me he was gay I lied about being one as skillfully. I wasn’t gay but was a little horny not having a girlfriend in a while. He was excited to overhear that and wanted me to stay the weekend with him. I didn’t care what the person's sex was as lengthy as I had sex and wanted to trial being with a guy again.
We met at a gas station before he drove us to his place several towns over into the next articulate. He was an okay-looking guy with salt-and-pepper hair with a goatee that he kept neatly trimmed. Not wanting to disclose his real name will call him Jason. Jason was the type of person who avoided doing unhealthy things during sex like anal sex and swallowing cum.
The first thing we did after getting to his place was a full-body massage. I never had one before and it was an erotic experience for me. I lay on a table with only a towel covering me as he rubbed my body with massage oil. When he was done asked me if he could remove the towel to finish the massage and I told him that he could. He pulled away the towel
Any gay bottom guys like me?
xenogeneic-red-chipmunk1
I’m in a monogamous relationship with a great guy, and sex has never been anything less than fantastic. The thing is, I’m a bottom, and my significant other is a uppermost. So most of the time I don’t bother trying to get an erection or include an orgasm, I just focus on his pleasure. He’s been great about encouraging me to come after he does, but it’s like I’m too afraid to experiment. He’s offered to give me top, or do other stuff I appreciate, to help earn me stimulated, and I’m pretty sure I could because I’ve done that in the past. But I love him so much, and because it’s not just a hookup, I undergo this pressure to not disappoint him and I don’t want him to get frustrated if it takes me a really elongated time to approach. I’ve told him I want to try and he was excited about that. I’ve done the first phase of the courses and I’m starting to feel more confident but it still makes me anxious when I think about trying. Just wondering if anybody has ever had a similar experience.
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sweet-black-dog2
I’m not gay but I think I can relate in the sense of not wanting to disappoint my partner. She has told me that she has pleasure just watching me gettin
What if your partner is putting you at uncertainty of pregnancy or STIs. Here’s some advice for you but also guide for them. Note the content warning below.
Note: this article has references to abusive non-consensual behaviour.
I acquire two kinds of ‘I am pregnant’ questions. One type is from anxious couples who are worried that a bit of pre-cum may have travelled through two layers of underwear to deep inside the vagina. To them I say ‘nope you can’t get pregnant from this and stop worrying’.
The other kind are fresh women telling me that their boyfriend ejaculated inside them a few times this month and they are worried they are pregnant. To them I say ‘ummmm you might be, but also can you please consider dumping your boyfriend.’
Read about faith in relationships
I understand that many people have unprotected sex even if they don’t want to receive pregnant or are ‘meh’ about pregnancy. Sometimes shit happens: people run out of pills, or they couldn’t wait to set the condom on. Perhaps some people can’t access pills, condoms, or any other kind of contraception. In the UK we have free access to contraception, but at the moment getting supplies from a clinic is trick