Women and gay mens sex
No woman 'totally straight', study says
Dr Rieger said it was not known why gay women were more often only aroused by their preferred sex, but he believes it may be to do with the amount of testosterone female babies obtain in the womb.
It was possible, he said, that women who experienced testosterone early in pregnancy had sexual behaviours that were more similar to men, but this has not yet been proven.
He said tests showed similar behaviours occurring in monkeys.
Dr Rieger said the wider conclusions of the study was that, while the majority of women identified as straight: "Our research shows that, when it comes to what turns them on they are usually multi-attracted or gay, but never totally straight".
However, he added the research did not necessarily mean women were repressing their true sexual preferences, but that their sexualities were simply more complex than men's.
"When it comes to straight women and sexual arousal there is such a disconnect between what a girl tells me and what her body does.
"It suggests that it's a different world for women when it comes to their sexualities."
When no one is looking, many women are watching gay porn
Back in 2015, the wildly popular online pornography site Pornhub — which boasts over 115 million daily views — published a finding that took sexuality researcher Lucy Neville by surprise: Women are responsible for more than a third of the site’s gay male porn views.
The finding planted the seed for what would eventually become a book, “Girls Who Fond of Boys Who Like Boys,” which was published earlier this month. In it, Neville, a lecturer at the University of Leicester in the United Kingdom, investigates what women relish about consuming gay male erotica and how it fits in with their perceptions of gender and sexuality.
"They are definitely objectifying women and not treating them like people," Christina said of straight porn. "A lot of the time it seems prefer the women aren't actually enjoying it."
Neville interviewed and surveyed more than 500 women over five years for the project. Many of the women with whom she spoke said “a lot of the problem they have with heterosexual porn is that they focus on the female body" without paying enough attention to men.
“Gay porn gives an opportunity to look
Do Straight Women Survey Gay Porn? Yes, and Here’s Why
You know how tons of straight men enjoy watching homosexual woman porn and nobody bats an eye? The same doesn’t seem to employ to women who watch gay porn.
This was made abundantly clear earlier this year when TikTok user @kirahofficial posted a video with with the text: “When I realized gay male p**n turns me on more than straight p**n.”
It was a seemingly benign observation (and usual TikTok fodder) that turned controversial when a rush of gay men accused Kirah of fetishizing the gay male community. “At first the responses were agreeing with what I said, but after about four hours, they got really nasty,” she tells InsideHook.
“I was really surprised that it blew up because I’d told my best ally that I monitor gay [male] porn and she didn’t think much of it,” she explains. “So when I posted it [on TikTok] I was expecting the matching response since I thought society was moving more toward [sex]-positivity than slut-shaming.”
Kirah’s video went viral and currently hosts over 35,000 comments and an alarming number of death threats.
“I really hate the fact that this TikTok user got called out in such a negati
My Husband’s Not Gay, a show on TLC, has caused an uproar. The negative attention is unfortunate because this could hold been a show that highlighted mixed-orientation couples and how these couples can actually make their relationships work.
Why do some people become so outspoken and judgmental about marriages with one straight and one gay spouse? There are several reasons. These marriages raise concerns about infidelity. They bring out people’s judgments about what marriage should or should not be. In particular, they bring out people’s opinions about monogamy.
Finally, these relationships suggest to some people “reparative therapy,” the unethical and impossible claim that a person can be changed from gay to straight. The men in this television program aren’t claiming to be ex-gay nor that they can change their sexual orientation (at least not on the show). They notify they are attracted to men but choose not to live as a gay man and their straight wives accept this.
People seem to get up in arms when a man says he is not gay but rather simply attracted to men. In our culture, we identify ourselves via a sexual-attraction binary: gay or straight. This is severely limiting
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Synopsis
Since primitive times, women have gazed over campfires, fumbled out of their bearskins and wondered how to best please their tool-wielding mates. Grunting males have offered tiny help or guidance for their eager-to-learn companions, instead occupying themselves with chest thumping, sports on cable and other testosterone-driven posturing.
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